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Nor am I condoning, excusing or endorsing men's methods.

Interesting essays could be written on how men should choose women, or how men wish they femxle women. But we will focus on a topic of more practical interest: We will take a clear-eyed look at that question, and maybe we will find that the truth has some redeeming qualities.

The first thing we need to face about men is this: More accurately, they are loons. They have their own ways of doing things. They don't proceed in a frmale correct, enlightened way to select a woman.

They may end up valuing her for the "right" things, the things she wants to be valued for. But that is not how they start.

Men are hard-wired to look for certain features. Evolution wants the mating process to succeed, and so it makes sure that men home in on ot which will be conducive to success, regardless of how unrefined this strategy may be. But no matter how strange men are, if you're a woman who wants to meet the right man, you have to Attractive female to text or hang out in to how men think.

Okay, "think" Discreet sex Bethlehem a bit of a stretch. If you try to change men or just don't get them, you'll be stymied -- but if you accept how they are and forgive them and work with them, you will Attractiive enormous power and effectiveness. Men want to look.

First, foremost and always, men are visual. Men's eyes are always wandering, seeking out hagn which they could and would impregnate. Why is this so, Mr. The fact is men can't help looking, even happily married men, even codgers who think Viagra is better than money.

So the first rule is, let men yang you. This may seem too obvious to even mention, but in fmeale it is the key to the whole thing. If you make it difficult to be seen -- for instance, if you sit in the back Lady looking sex Bay with shades on -- you stop Step One from happening.

So none of the other steps can happen. Note that being Attractive female to text or hang out is particularly crucial -- and achievable -- if you are trying to meet Mr. Now let us ask, what are men looking for? What are they hoping to see? If you're feeling cynical, your answer may be, "Cameron Diaz.

Men are, in the first place, looking for "attractive. Well, the good news is, it means completely different things to different men -- but it almost always involves a combination of face, and body shape and size.

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Different men like completely different bodies. Many men in our culture like slender, athletic female figures -- some men really do, and some say they do, because they are ashamed of admitting anything else to their male peer group.

Some men want the rail-thin model type.

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But many men in our culture do not want a slender woman: Some men want very large women. Hng some men don't really care that much about body size or shape.

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Then we have faces. Here there is even less consensus. No one agrees on faces. A face that strikes one man as masculine may seem feminine to another. A face that strikes Tom as sexy may look shallow to Harry. Ralph may hate a lot of makeup on a woman, while Shawn considers it a turn-on. There are no objective standards concerning faces.

Even in the realm of extremely good-looking celebrities, you will find a whole gamut of opinions. I know men who think Britney Spears is homely. I know men who think Pamela Anderson is grotesque. I know men who hate all blondes.

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All this may strike the sensitive, intelligent woman as superficial, even offensive. Surely the cultured, educated, spiritual yet masculine Attractie of your dreams doesn't look only at the outside of a woman. Scientists say men and women are both designed to be ruthlessly pragmatic in their criteria for a mate.

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fsmale Women are programmed by evolution to choose men based on their father potential, which is closely associated with status in the group Attractive female to text or hang out what we now call money and Lonely married woman Wengen. Men -- regardless of their conscious attitude to having kids--are designed to look for good reproducers; a low waist-to-hip ratio of around. And in both sexes, facial beauty is associated with grace, intelligence, popularity and, in general, fitness for survival.

So forget about how superficial men may be and realize that they, like femzle, are hard-wired in mysterious ways, which may or may not be as shallow as you think.

Fortunately, many of them don't toe the evolutionary line anyway--apparently their wiring has come loose. Take faces, for example.

It's clear that we read far more in a face than looks. We think we are reading souls. We look into the eyes of the person we are talking to, and we feel as if we can tell vemale they are, deep down -- what they value, what they love. With certain people, something about the face feels familiar, even familial. Many people strike Attractive female to text or hang out Ishpeming MI sex dating somehow alien; but some faces arouse in us a strange empathy Love in Proctor Arkansas the first time we set eyes on them.

What is a man doing when hanng looks you over? On some level, quite possibly unconscious, he or his genes are trying to decide, Attracctive this person be a Attractive female to text or hang out or is she just a potential friend? If the answer comes up "lover," his charm will probably kick in, and there will be a lot of twinkling eyes and banter and smiling read: Let's assume he finds you to be above some basic threshold of attractiveness -- what other factors come into play?

You'll be getting her to say “Yes” to go on a date with you. When the question of what to text a girl comes up, smiley faces are good . When figuring out what to text a girl you must keep the same principles of attraction and. Once you learn the “secret structure” of flirting over text, it's like having a superpower an unfair It's a requirement if you want to date an attractive woman. . Just go straight for the close by inviting her out on a date. We'll teach you how with these flirty text messages. than ever, there's still so much we don't know about female arousal. . "Wanna skip class/work and hang out with me instead? ;)" We all know texting into the wee hours of the morning can get pretty open — take a chance and ask your crush to spill.

Well, as odd as it may sound, you are being checked out in a number of ways to determine whether you are too intimidating. You are being studied to see whether you are likely to defeat him as a lover.

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I mean this in the most literal way: The average male who is old enough and mature enough to want to marry has realized Attractiive sex is not always a triumph. I'm not Attractive female to text or hang out he is sexually insecure: But therein lies the rub: Our evolving male has tried, with those few cells in his brain devoted to self-knowledge, to wrestle with this question.

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This isn't all selfish. When a man spies a woman who is really "his type" -- whatever this may be -- he thinks he has found someone whose sexual needs he could enthusiastically fulfill.

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The men are responding in kind, but meanwhile they are both, as discreetly as they can, checking Rachel out.

Now it happens that Rachel, though strikingly attractive, has a hnag hawk-like cast to her features, a slight fierceness built into her face, that reads to Randy as intimidating and as slightly masculine. He senses in her an unswerving confidence in herself and in the cosmos, and a capacity for aggression, that make him feel he may be out of his league.

So Randy is leaning toward a no on the "lover" issue, except for one thing: He is having trouble getting good views of her legs, because he is right next to her, and has to lean back and tilt his head to inspect them. To Atractive matters worse, Rachel has said she is a criminal lawyer. Randy is a tax lawyer, and they are bantering about the legal scene. But he opted out of court Attractive female to text or hang out because it was too scary, and he is very conscious of a threat to his ego in this woman.