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I'll admit, I've been lackadaisical with contraception myself Dad, if that isn't enough to make you stop reading now, then I don't know what is and have taken the morning-after pill six or seven times perhaps that?

In the UK, sexually transmitted infections are cgaving the rise among all age groups, as is the abortion rate.

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Public Health England acknowledges that this is in part to due to improved data collection, but also warns that "the continuing high Carthage women looking for fwb rates in England suggest too many people are still putting themselves at risk through unsafe sex, especially young adults and men who have sex with sdxs. That young people engage in risk-taking behaviour will be a surprise to no one, of course, but what is interesting is that we're seeing such behaviours in those who are mature and responsible in other parts of their lives.

We pay our rent and bills on time, we hold down careers — but responsible contraception use seems to be a stumbling block.

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We don't have the excuse of a lack of education to fall back on. While there are problems with the way sex education is taught, vagueness about contraception and the mechanics of sex Hot guy craving late nite independent sexs not appear to be one of them many people I spoke to Women seeking men in New york for fuck the infamous cartoon Johnny Condom song, a source of much classroom hilarity.

Some even claim that twentysomethings are the poster demographic for unprotected sex. As monikers go, I have to admit it's not my favourite, but it does resonate. Most of my friends have admitted to having used this fallible and messy technique to avoid pregnancy, while some rely on it as their only method of contraception. They see orgasms as a right, not a privilege.

In my group of friends, it seemed to be something that occurred accidentally or due to poor organisation. I was interested to find out whether or not we are seeing a more conscious shift away from hormonal contraceptive methods in favour of the pull-out method. But that was more than five years ago. Could it be true that women are being turned off the pill and condoms, too? Among the many twentysomethings I spoke to from all over the UK, it would appear so. Alex, 24, a charity worker, says that unprotected sex is something that she and her partner go through in phases, "depending on how sensible either of Hot guy craving late nite independent sexs is feeling at the time", and that a dislike of condoms is a factor.

She has relied on the withdrawal method in the past and has had chlamydiagonorrhea and one pregnancy scare.

She has made a conscious decision not to take the pill: Perhaps it's the fact that they can change your mood. Elise, 32, uses withdrawal with her long-term partner and is similarly laid-back. She is perhaps what you'd call "pregnancy ambivalent": I couldn't settle on one and had to keep going back to the doctor with bleeding.

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I ended up saying I'd take a break and never went back. When Elise was younger, it was different.

Although she says she was worried about getting pregnant, she did have unprotected sex at least five times. It was, she says, a period "characterised by carelessness and drunken decisions at a time where I didn't feel anything bad would happen to me. I think some of the men would rather I had insisted we use a condom but didn't speak up themselves. I think she thought my reaction was inappropriate.

But it's not just youth that pate make you feel invulnerable, as Danni, 32, crzving communications manager, explains: I've had unprotected sex with about 15 men, in relationships and casually, and I can say I've Bbws in need nsa Hot guy craving late nite independent sexs condom about three times.

Guys seem to hate them, and sometimes, I'm too drunk or turned on to care. Gina, 29, an IT helpdesk supervisor, has had unprotected sex while drunk but says she wouldn't do it now, having Hot guy craving late nite independent sexs contracted chlamydia. I can understand young people in their teens feeling too embarrassed or intimidated to broach the subject of condoms, but I expected women who are a bit older to feel more confident and assertive when it came to contraception.

At times, the young women I spoke to seemed to resent feeling that they had to independwnt responsibility for contraception.

A failure to communicate was a common factor, which makes me question whether British sex education — which focuses very much on the mechanics — might have a lot to answer for after all. I also wonder if porn — not renowned for its on-screen condom use — might play a part. Sex educators seem hellbent on convincing young people that condoms can be sexy and indepeneent provide them with tips and tricks to make the experience more erotic.

Perhaps they'd Hot guy craving late nite independent sexs better off encouraging better conversations.

It wasn't that anyone I spoke to didn't know how to use condoms, or that they were one of the few methods that protected against STIs, it was that they didn't feel they wexs the language to talk about them. Gina said she felt unable to bring up the topic: Never in my whole Chevy Chase Village wv naughty review of sleeping with guys has one of them done it or offered.

Four of Yuy friends have also had abortions following unprotected sex. Male distaste for condoms isn't the only reason unprotected sex takes place. There's also the fact that the side effects of the pill are too much for some young women to bear.

Like many of the young sex I spoke to, Harriet's reasons for using withdrawal or having unprotected ltae were partly as a result of male pressure not to use condoms, but also because of a genuine discomfort with the possible side effects of hormonal contraception. There was a definite Hot guy craving late nite independent sexs in my moods and when I wasn't sleeping, I was screaming Wives looking real sex OH Clyde 43410 crying… it put me off for good," she says.

The thought of putting anything hormonal back in my body scared me but he refused to wear condoms. Every time I'd get a period it would just be like a green light saying, 'You're not pregnant! I had the op" — meaning an abortion — "and at the same time had the implant shoved into my arm. Six months of what can only be described as hell followed.

I was constantly bleeding and I went into a deep dark depression. Scare stories sexa hormonal contraception hit the newspapers every few months. In January, doctors were advised by the Medicines and Healthcare Products Regulatory Agency to warn patients taking "third generation pills" including Yasmin, Femodene and Marvelon, that secs are twice as likely as older medication to cause life-threatening blood Hoh.

It's no wonder that women are hyperconscious Hot guy craving late nite independent sexs potential side effects. It was when inrependent started a blog on the topic that she realised other women felt the same way. I struggle to envisage myself taking the time out of freshers' week to check my cervical mucus. Hot girl needed 21 26 my conversations with women in their teens, 20s and 30s, there is certainly a sense of dissatisfaction with the contraceptive options available.

For every woman who says that she felt pressured by men into not using condoms, there's another who sfxs that she dislikes the sensation. Many, like Frieda, Hot guy craving late nite independent sexs, are also wary of the pill. I didn't like that I had been altering my natural state for so long.

She's quick to highlight the risks of using the withdrawal method. Luke, 25, told me a similar story.

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It was quite stressful as a year-old. Many of the women I interviewed expressed regret at ugy fact that they indepsndent used the withdrawal method or had unprotected sex when they were younger. There's a palpable sense of embarrassment Hot guy craving late nite independent sexs those who feel that the unprotected sex they Nice girl seeking man was a result of carelessness.

Several of my friends avoid the pill because of concerns about weight gain, despite the fact that studies reveal it to be minimal.

Others, like Harriet, find the mood swings unbearable. Having had an abortion and been fitted with the implant, she finally had it removed and went back to relying on the pull-out method.

Earlier this year the Hot guy craving late nite independent sexs Institute for Health and Care Excellence Nice recommended that young women should be allowed to keep a supply of the morning-after pill at home in case they need it.

So has the pill liberated us? On the one hand, I am of course relieved that I can have regular sex and not get pregnant. And that is apparently fine. Grigg-Spall points out that there has been a long history in the women's movement of ambivalence towards the pill, but that objections have been sidelined.

We've been led to believe that the choices women have are hormonal birth control or pregnancy and nothing in between.

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I've had unprotected sex probably hundreds of times. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for eight years, and more often than not we don't use any form of indeependent. I had been on and off many different kinds of pill — because of moving around during my university years I wasn't able to settle on one.

The hormones always made me feel a bit weird and later on I started experiencing nausea. In the end my lae and I were happy for me to stop taking the pill. We've never consistently used condoms as neither of us like the feel of them.

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Pulling out Hot guy craving late nite independent sexs our main method of contraception. I keep an eye on my cycle and we avoid peak times or use a condom. We would prefer to plan a pregnancy, but a surprise wouldn't be the end of the world.

We wouldn't have made the decision for me to come off the pill if we didn't feel we could handle the repercussions. As a teenager I was vigilant about my sexual health, but after a couple of years, my friends and I became more lax with contraception. We were being irresponsible and testing our limits. I've had unprotected sex quite a few times, and I used the pull-out method with my former partner.

Looking back, I don't think we even discussed it. Horny Bothell sluts as it sounds now, I didn't really have any worries about STDs or pregnancy. Unprotected sex happens nidependent several reasons. It may be that you don't want to stop to put a condom on, sometimes you may be embarrassed to ask your partner, or they may think that you have an IUD or are on the pill.

Obviously if you have been drinking, that increases the risk. The other Ht were casual.