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How can you reconcile your potent sexuality with the idea that male desire is wrong or frightening? The powerful, intense immediacy of male need may seem like a foe to you now. You can be up front about being attracted to a woman without scaring her or being creepy.
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It can make sense to blame others for our awful emotions. You have the opportunity to grow through this difficult experience. You Ugly virgin seeking woman become womann even more incredible man—compassionate, empathetic, loving, kind, proud, confident—because of these difficult emotions.
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